The last day of 2014 is upon us....where did the year go?! This year seemed to fly by...or at least looking back it did. It reminds me of how short life really is and how fleeting it can all be. In the end, it's the end of another year, another chapter of our lives, and another year to look back on.
So, however you celebrate the beginning of a new year I hope you take some time to reflect on the past one...your accomplishments, your failures, your enlightenment's, your relationships, your passions, and your on-going self discovery. May the lessons and the experiences of the last year propel you into the new year with hope, determination, faith, conviction, and inspiration!
Please have a safe and healthy New Year's Eve (as you celebrate around the world) and may you have a blessed, joyful and prosperous New Year!!!
Thank you for sharing my current journey of self-discovery, new opportunities and mindful presence in this thing we call 'life'! Enjoy yours!
Wednesday, December 31, 2014
Sunday, December 28, 2014
Winding Down the Holiday Season...
We had our annual Christmas family get-together with my aunt and her family that live nearby. They are the only extended family that live in Texas, so it's nice to get together for holidays and special occasions. I always host (except for 1 year) the celebration at my house. So, I've been preparing and prepping for a couple weeks leading up to today. It's the planner in me!
Of course, everything went well and everyone had a good time and filled their bellies with sugary delights! That's what the holidays are for, right?! It's always a blessing to get-together every year with our health, good fortunes and holiday spirit that lends to new memories made for each one of us...young and old. Remembering and sharing stories from our youth with the kiddos today and passing down memories and traditions is special and heart-warming. Those are the times that remind you of your youth and all the happy memories shared during the holidays...and makes you miss those times and the rest of your extended family who you don't see as often anymore. The holidays are a wonderful and magical time...and being able to share it with family is the best part!
So, as the holidays wind down and a new year approaches quickly, let us cherish the wonderful holiday memories made and prepare for a brighter new year full of endless possibilities! May you reflect on this year full of blessings, renewal, and perseverance, and look ahead into the new year full of faith, hope and respect for your fellow man. May we all be a face of peace and understanding towards one another in 2015! Blessings to you and yours as we end another year!
Of course, everything went well and everyone had a good time and filled their bellies with sugary delights! That's what the holidays are for, right?! It's always a blessing to get-together every year with our health, good fortunes and holiday spirit that lends to new memories made for each one of us...young and old. Remembering and sharing stories from our youth with the kiddos today and passing down memories and traditions is special and heart-warming. Those are the times that remind you of your youth and all the happy memories shared during the holidays...and makes you miss those times and the rest of your extended family who you don't see as often anymore. The holidays are a wonderful and magical time...and being able to share it with family is the best part!
So, as the holidays wind down and a new year approaches quickly, let us cherish the wonderful holiday memories made and prepare for a brighter new year full of endless possibilities! May you reflect on this year full of blessings, renewal, and perseverance, and look ahead into the new year full of faith, hope and respect for your fellow man. May we all be a face of peace and understanding towards one another in 2015! Blessings to you and yours as we end another year!
Wednesday, December 24, 2014
Merry Christmas!
I wish you and your family a very Merry Christmas!!! May you have a joyful, safe and healthy day! Enjoy old and new family traditions that bring warm and loving memories year after year! May the glory of Jesus' birth shine a light in your life today and everyday!
Blessings to you on this Christmas Eve and tomorrow as you gather with loved ones to celebrate Christmas Day!!
Blessings to you on this Christmas Eve and tomorrow as you gather with loved ones to celebrate Christmas Day!!
Sunday, December 21, 2014
Christmas Week!
Christmas is nearly here! How did that happen?! I can't believe Christmas is only a few days away and the start of another new year is little over a week away! Wow. Where did this year go?
I'm grateful to be off from work over the holidays so I can enjoy the festivities, family, food, friends and some down time. There is down time during the holidays, right? Well regardless, I'm looking forward to new Christmas memories with all of the nieces and nephews and enjoying their shiny, happy faces. Isn't that what it's all about anyways? The innocence of childhood, the wonder, the excitement, the belief and the joy?!
As Christmas approaches, I hope you take in all the merriment around you, feel the grace of God touch your heart and share your blessings with others. It's the season of wonder and delight! I wish you all a very safe, happy, and healthy Christmas week ahead!
Merry Christmas!!! And, blessings for a beautiful Christmas week!
I'm grateful to be off from work over the holidays so I can enjoy the festivities, family, food, friends and some down time. There is down time during the holidays, right? Well regardless, I'm looking forward to new Christmas memories with all of the nieces and nephews and enjoying their shiny, happy faces. Isn't that what it's all about anyways? The innocence of childhood, the wonder, the excitement, the belief and the joy?!
As Christmas approaches, I hope you take in all the merriment around you, feel the grace of God touch your heart and share your blessings with others. It's the season of wonder and delight! I wish you all a very safe, happy, and healthy Christmas week ahead!
Merry Christmas!!! And, blessings for a beautiful Christmas week!
Wednesday, December 17, 2014
Countdown to Christmas!
Christmas is almost here! I can't believe it's next week already? Where did this year go? I finally found myself singing to the Christmas carols on the radio this morning. I've been hearing them, of course, for the past several weeks but finally busted out and sang along in my car this morning!
And, I guess it was inevitable that the lights would go out on my outside little Christmas trees that I put on each side of my door...actually, the bottom lights on both trees work, it's just the top part of the tree that has it's lights out. Go figure. So, how do you tell which light bulb has burned out? Any quick, magical tricks?
Otherwise, I'm all ready to go! Finally got the rest of the house decorated last weekend and really bought a lot of new things this year. As I mentioned in a previous post, I bought a new, simple tree that I didn't have to decorate, so I went for the simple, natural feel this year. I only got out about 1/3 of my Christmas decorations, but it looks good and not overdone. I think I needed a change-up in my decor this year and it's nice to have different colors and different decorations to play with! Besides, I'll be taking them down in about 10 days, so simple clean-up sounds good to me too! ;-)
And, as the end of the year approaches, I've found myself reflecting a lot on this year over the past week or so. The good, the bad, the to-do's, the 'check-that-off-the-list', the new experiences, the sad losses, and the new hope for tomorrow and the new year! I hope the next week brings you and your family much joy and peace as you celebrate the greatest gift we all have and ever will receive and that's Jesus Christ! May HIS grace, mercy, love and light shine on us each day...today, tomorrow and throughout the new year!! Blessings to you and your family during this Christmas season!
And, I guess it was inevitable that the lights would go out on my outside little Christmas trees that I put on each side of my door...actually, the bottom lights on both trees work, it's just the top part of the tree that has it's lights out. Go figure. So, how do you tell which light bulb has burned out? Any quick, magical tricks?
Otherwise, I'm all ready to go! Finally got the rest of the house decorated last weekend and really bought a lot of new things this year. As I mentioned in a previous post, I bought a new, simple tree that I didn't have to decorate, so I went for the simple, natural feel this year. I only got out about 1/3 of my Christmas decorations, but it looks good and not overdone. I think I needed a change-up in my decor this year and it's nice to have different colors and different decorations to play with! Besides, I'll be taking them down in about 10 days, so simple clean-up sounds good to me too! ;-)
And, as the end of the year approaches, I've found myself reflecting a lot on this year over the past week or so. The good, the bad, the to-do's, the 'check-that-off-the-list', the new experiences, the sad losses, and the new hope for tomorrow and the new year! I hope the next week brings you and your family much joy and peace as you celebrate the greatest gift we all have and ever will receive and that's Jesus Christ! May HIS grace, mercy, love and light shine on us each day...today, tomorrow and throughout the new year!! Blessings to you and your family during this Christmas season!
Sunday, December 14, 2014
Don't Forget!
Christmas is less than 2 weeks away! If you're still looking for that special gift or a last minute gift for someone, don't forget you can order my book Corn-fed with Rice on the Side on my website at www.kimfenneman.com! Order today!!
Hope you are enjoying all the holiday joy and festivities wherever you may be! Blessings to you and yours this holiday season!!
Hope you are enjoying all the holiday joy and festivities wherever you may be! Blessings to you and yours this holiday season!!
Wednesday, December 10, 2014
Another First (Con't).....
A couple weeks ago I wrote about a recent trip to the nail salon with my mom. The girl doing my fingernails actually asked me if I was Asian!?!? Huh?! Are you serious?!
I forgot to mention one other thing that sort of surprised me and yes, was another first for me during our trip to get our nails done. The girl working on my toenails actually guessed that I was Korean. I asked her how she knew and was expecting her to say either "I just did" or "It's your cheekbones" BUT instead she said "Your skin is whiter." Huh?! What?! Really? I've never ever heard that before! No one has ever said that to me! My skin is whiter...whiter than what? Most Asians have "porcelain" skin so most people say and that's why you see many Asian dolls with white porcelain looking skin. But, I've never considered my skin to be "white". I've always just heard that my skin has yellow undertones and that affects some of the makeup I should wear or even the palette of colors that I should wear...like, don't actually wear yellow!
After she made that statement I didn't know what to say. It just sat there in my brain for awhile while I tried to process it. So, I didn't say anything in response. Plus, when I get those types of statements or questions (especially from other Asians), I don't ever turn to the person I'm with and start questioning or commenting on how obnoxious or rude they are, and most of the time I don't take it as rude or insulting. I take it with a grain of salt and am confident in my own self to laugh it off. That person just doesn't get it and has no understanding of who I am or where I came from. So, I just looked at my mom and smiled. And then after we left and got into the car we talked about it! Did you hear that? Did you hear what they asked me? Did you hear how she knew I was Korean?
We all learn something new everyday...or at least I hope that we do. That's what each day's journey is all about. Learning and growing into the person that you want to become. It's a lifelong process and some days our eyes get opened to new perspectives and new understandings. So, while we're in the middle of the holiday chaos and cheer, let us take a moment to see something in a new light or learn something new...each and every day! Blessings to you this week of holiday madness! May you find peace or a little quiet time to reflect on your day and soak in what you've learned today, tomorrow and the next day.
I forgot to mention one other thing that sort of surprised me and yes, was another first for me during our trip to get our nails done. The girl working on my toenails actually guessed that I was Korean. I asked her how she knew and was expecting her to say either "I just did" or "It's your cheekbones" BUT instead she said "Your skin is whiter." Huh?! What?! Really? I've never ever heard that before! No one has ever said that to me! My skin is whiter...whiter than what? Most Asians have "porcelain" skin so most people say and that's why you see many Asian dolls with white porcelain looking skin. But, I've never considered my skin to be "white". I've always just heard that my skin has yellow undertones and that affects some of the makeup I should wear or even the palette of colors that I should wear...like, don't actually wear yellow!
After she made that statement I didn't know what to say. It just sat there in my brain for awhile while I tried to process it. So, I didn't say anything in response. Plus, when I get those types of statements or questions (especially from other Asians), I don't ever turn to the person I'm with and start questioning or commenting on how obnoxious or rude they are, and most of the time I don't take it as rude or insulting. I take it with a grain of salt and am confident in my own self to laugh it off. That person just doesn't get it and has no understanding of who I am or where I came from. So, I just looked at my mom and smiled. And then after we left and got into the car we talked about it! Did you hear that? Did you hear what they asked me? Did you hear how she knew I was Korean?
We all learn something new everyday...or at least I hope that we do. That's what each day's journey is all about. Learning and growing into the person that you want to become. It's a lifelong process and some days our eyes get opened to new perspectives and new understandings. So, while we're in the middle of the holiday chaos and cheer, let us take a moment to see something in a new light or learn something new...each and every day! Blessings to you this week of holiday madness! May you find peace or a little quiet time to reflect on your day and soak in what you've learned today, tomorrow and the next day.
Sunday, December 7, 2014
Gettin' my Christmas On...Finally!
Ok, I'm finally getting some Christmas decorations up in my house! Yes, it's December 7th and I'm just now putting up my Christmas tree. I wanted to do something different this year, so it took me a little while to figure out what I wanted to do. Originally I was either going to put up my tree or just decorate the house, but not both. I know, I know...where's my holiday spirit?! Well, this year I wasn't in the mood to drag in my huge tree piece by piece, put it up and then carefully decorate it as I do every year. I wanted something simple, something pretty, more natural looking (as far as decor) and something quick! So, I found the perfect tree at a local craft store that's 5' with flocking, pine cones, berries and ice chips on it...tada! Done decorating the tree! Perfect! Just what I was looking for!
So, I just got that up and finicky me I wrapped a big box with a bow that matches the natural tones of the tree and put the tree on top of the box to give it some height. Then I had to buy new wrapping paper instead of what I was planning on using this year, because it didn't match the color scheme of my new tree...which is basic red, green and white. With my other tree my colors are purple, aqua blue and silver...and my wrapping paper has to match my color scheme...always...and the bows! I know, crazy, but it's a matter of aesthetic and color flow that is coordinated around the house.
Most of my presents are all wrapped and purposefully placed under the tree so it all coordinates with eye pleasing wonder! New colors, new tree...delightful!! Yes, I still need to pull out the 5-6 storage bins of Christmas decorations to finish decorating the house, but it'll have to wait another day or two. I didn't get a lot done the last couple days because I've been busy with other activities...so again, I feel behind, but I'll get there before our big family holiday celebration at my house in a couple weeks. How are you doing with your Christmas decorating?
Always so much to do and so little time! But, I love sitting in the dark in my living room with just the Christmas tree lights on! Joyful!!! Peaceful!!! Christmastime!!!
No matter if you've finished decorating or just begun, enjoy all the wonder and magic of the season in all the Christmas activities you do this holly jolly season! Take time to enjoy it instead of it just being one of your to-do's on your to-do list. Jesus is the reason for the season, so remind yourself or find out what that truly means to you in your life at this time in your life. May you find many holiday blessings in your week ahead! Cheers!!
So, I just got that up and finicky me I wrapped a big box with a bow that matches the natural tones of the tree and put the tree on top of the box to give it some height. Then I had to buy new wrapping paper instead of what I was planning on using this year, because it didn't match the color scheme of my new tree...which is basic red, green and white. With my other tree my colors are purple, aqua blue and silver...and my wrapping paper has to match my color scheme...always...and the bows! I know, crazy, but it's a matter of aesthetic and color flow that is coordinated around the house.
Most of my presents are all wrapped and purposefully placed under the tree so it all coordinates with eye pleasing wonder! New colors, new tree...delightful!! Yes, I still need to pull out the 5-6 storage bins of Christmas decorations to finish decorating the house, but it'll have to wait another day or two. I didn't get a lot done the last couple days because I've been busy with other activities...so again, I feel behind, but I'll get there before our big family holiday celebration at my house in a couple weeks. How are you doing with your Christmas decorating?
Always so much to do and so little time! But, I love sitting in the dark in my living room with just the Christmas tree lights on! Joyful!!! Peaceful!!! Christmastime!!!
No matter if you've finished decorating or just begun, enjoy all the wonder and magic of the season in all the Christmas activities you do this holly jolly season! Take time to enjoy it instead of it just being one of your to-do's on your to-do list. Jesus is the reason for the season, so remind yourself or find out what that truly means to you in your life at this time in your life. May you find many holiday blessings in your week ahead! Cheers!!
Wednesday, December 3, 2014
Another First...
Before our NYC trip a couple weeks ago, my mom and I went to the nail salon to get a manicure and pedicure...of course! If you've read my book or some previous posts you know the typical conversation that always occurs while I'm there..."where are you from?" That usually starts off the conversation. Well, during this trip another first occurred...one that I didn't expect!
As we were sitting there chatting and somewhat relaxing the girls working on our feet and hands were chatting...of course in "that other language". Oddly though, for the first time ever the girl working on my feet translated for us. I didn't ask her to or even give her an inquisitive look..she just looked up every now and again and told us what they were saying. Extremely interesting! Then the young girl working on my fingernails asked me if I was Asian!?!? Huh?? Don't I look Asian? What other race would I be? Maybe that's not the question she meant to ask me, but it was definitely a first!!! Am I Asian?!?! What??? It was probably the funniest and most obvious question ever! I'm not sure I'll ever get that one again...but then again, you never know!
Sometimes you think you've heard them all...until, you haven't and someone shocks you...again. I don't necessarily see myself as Asian as I look at myself in the mirror everyday, but I do see my Asian features. Does that make sense? I see me...not all of the time, but most of the time. And yes, I wish I had more tips and tricks for Asian skin, hair, etc, but that's what magazines and blogs are for, right?
Sometimes the most routine things in life throw us the most random and head-scratching questions/comments/thoughts...and that's what keeps life interesting! It's that curiosity, that understanding and learning that continues to happen day to day. So, as you go through your daily routines and cross paths with the same individuals every day (at the grocery store, gas station, dry cleaners, bakery, school, work, etc) appreciate the routine, but also revel in "firsts" or the unexpected. May blessings fill your week with curiosity, knowledge and compassion!
As we were sitting there chatting and somewhat relaxing the girls working on our feet and hands were chatting...of course in "that other language". Oddly though, for the first time ever the girl working on my feet translated for us. I didn't ask her to or even give her an inquisitive look..she just looked up every now and again and told us what they were saying. Extremely interesting! Then the young girl working on my fingernails asked me if I was Asian!?!? Huh?? Don't I look Asian? What other race would I be? Maybe that's not the question she meant to ask me, but it was definitely a first!!! Am I Asian?!?! What??? It was probably the funniest and most obvious question ever! I'm not sure I'll ever get that one again...but then again, you never know!
Sometimes you think you've heard them all...until, you haven't and someone shocks you...again. I don't necessarily see myself as Asian as I look at myself in the mirror everyday, but I do see my Asian features. Does that make sense? I see me...not all of the time, but most of the time. And yes, I wish I had more tips and tricks for Asian skin, hair, etc, but that's what magazines and blogs are for, right?
Sometimes the most routine things in life throw us the most random and head-scratching questions/comments/thoughts...and that's what keeps life interesting! It's that curiosity, that understanding and learning that continues to happen day to day. So, as you go through your daily routines and cross paths with the same individuals every day (at the grocery store, gas station, dry cleaners, bakery, school, work, etc) appreciate the routine, but also revel in "firsts" or the unexpected. May blessings fill your week with curiosity, knowledge and compassion!
Sunday, November 30, 2014
Season's Greetings!!
The holidays are officially here! Thanksgiving has come and gone...along with Black Friday. Now it's back to work for a few more weeks and then some down time to enjoy Christmas with my family and friends!
Are you feeling the holiday frenzy yet or easing your way into the madness?! Last year, mom and I were troopers and shopped a little on Thanksgiving Day (for the first time) and then got some great deals on Black Friday. This year we lost our steam early on! It must be old age? We didn't go out shopping on Thanksgiving Day and we started mid-morning on Black Friday...however, I got out a couple hours earlier on my own before mom came over. We got some good deals, but we lacked the gusto of a year ago! How's your holiday shopping going?
I still feel behind but am trying not to put undue pressure on myself. I'll decorate the house next weekend (inside and out) and wrap presents during the week. As for my notoriously early Christmas cards...well, they may be a few days later this year...yikes! I know, I know...it's OK...but people have come to expect my card 1st to arrive each year. But, there's only so much I can get done each day and there's always tomorrow, right?
It's almost 80 degrees here in Texas today, but tomorrow it will struggle to get into the low 40's. Eeeck! But, it'll feel more like the holidays with some cooler weather ahead.
Today also ends National Adoption Month. I've read several articles posted on Huffington Post online throughout the month and was happy to see some attention paid to the cause rather than be overshadowed by the holidays or other news. I hope you were able to read or hear about some good adoption stories throughout the month, learn more about adoption, volunteer or support the cause in some way and/or share your adoption story with others.
If you haven't read my book yet, Corn-fed with Rice on the Side, you can go to www.kimfenneman.com to order the book. You can order a hardcopy from my website or go to Amazon.com to order an ebook. I ship internationally, as well as, domestically and you can get the ebook in other languages. It's a great Christmas gift for anyone, so buy one (or two) today...and don't forget to get one for yourself!!
Blessings to you on the first week of December!! Happy Holidays!!!
Are you feeling the holiday frenzy yet or easing your way into the madness?! Last year, mom and I were troopers and shopped a little on Thanksgiving Day (for the first time) and then got some great deals on Black Friday. This year we lost our steam early on! It must be old age? We didn't go out shopping on Thanksgiving Day and we started mid-morning on Black Friday...however, I got out a couple hours earlier on my own before mom came over. We got some good deals, but we lacked the gusto of a year ago! How's your holiday shopping going?
I still feel behind but am trying not to put undue pressure on myself. I'll decorate the house next weekend (inside and out) and wrap presents during the week. As for my notoriously early Christmas cards...well, they may be a few days later this year...yikes! I know, I know...it's OK...but people have come to expect my card 1st to arrive each year. But, there's only so much I can get done each day and there's always tomorrow, right?
It's almost 80 degrees here in Texas today, but tomorrow it will struggle to get into the low 40's. Eeeck! But, it'll feel more like the holidays with some cooler weather ahead.
Today also ends National Adoption Month. I've read several articles posted on Huffington Post online throughout the month and was happy to see some attention paid to the cause rather than be overshadowed by the holidays or other news. I hope you were able to read or hear about some good adoption stories throughout the month, learn more about adoption, volunteer or support the cause in some way and/or share your adoption story with others.
If you haven't read my book yet, Corn-fed with Rice on the Side, you can go to www.kimfenneman.com to order the book. You can order a hardcopy from my website or go to Amazon.com to order an ebook. I ship internationally, as well as, domestically and you can get the ebook in other languages. It's a great Christmas gift for anyone, so buy one (or two) today...and don't forget to get one for yourself!!
Blessings to you on the first week of December!! Happy Holidays!!!
Wednesday, November 26, 2014
Yes, I'm Here...
Sorry for the missed post on Sunday, but I've been trying to post to the site since Sunday and haven't been able to access the site. I just ran a vulnerabilities scan and thankfully I'm now able to access the site. Sorry for the delay!
Are you ready for Turkey Day? Preparations made, food prepared, baking done, bar stocked, house clean, and appetite raring to go? I feel like I've been to 10 grocery stores in the last 3 days, but it's really more like 4! Yes, 4 and I haven't just been preparing for Thanksgiving but the next couple weeks preparing meals and freezing them along with some holiday treats for co-workers. And even though I had last week off and this week I feel behind! Normally I would have all of my Christmas cards done by now...or at least I did last year! It's the one Christmas thing I'm a 'little crazy' about...getting my cards out on December 1st! I love sending cards and receiving them because most of the time it's the only time of the year that I hear from people...except for Facebook (if they're on FB).
Last week I was truly on vacation (the first one I've taken this year), as I took my mom to New York City for her first visit ever! We had a lot of fun and filled our days full! My mom enjoyed ALL the sites and sounds of NYC and we really only saw 1/3 of the city. There is SO much to do and see and we just couldn't fit it all in, but what we did do was fun and memorable. When we arrived on Monday it was rainy but warm, but that all changed on Tuesday. The polar vortex sank down and it was in the low 30's with winds gusting up to 20-30 mph! It was freezing!! Literally! And so were our toes and fingers since it's such a walking city. I don't think my mom realized how much walking we'd do even though I warned her. She did pretty good, though, in keeping up and getting around the city. Of course we took some taxis but walking through Central Park is an experience all it's own. We honestly didn't do a lot of shopping and really only spent money on food and taxis! Go figure. But, my mom enjoyed her first visit to NYC and I enjoyed spending time with her!
So, now that the holidays are upon us...starting tomorrow...it's time to get in the holiday spirit! Decorations to put up, lights to trim our trees and houses, holiday treats to bake, Christmas cards to write, gifts to buy and wrap, and sharing it all with family and friends! So, no matter how quickly the holiday season flies by I hope you enjoy the sounds, the sights, the joy and laughter of the season! And, may you be safe and bountiful with your holiday shopping...starting either tomorrow or on Black Friday! Good luck and Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family! May you realize your blessings, share them with others and help those in need around you.
I'm thankful for my health, my family, my friends and for the opportunity to share my story with you and others! May you have a blessed Thanksgiving and holiday season ahead!!!
Are you ready for Turkey Day? Preparations made, food prepared, baking done, bar stocked, house clean, and appetite raring to go? I feel like I've been to 10 grocery stores in the last 3 days, but it's really more like 4! Yes, 4 and I haven't just been preparing for Thanksgiving but the next couple weeks preparing meals and freezing them along with some holiday treats for co-workers. And even though I had last week off and this week I feel behind! Normally I would have all of my Christmas cards done by now...or at least I did last year! It's the one Christmas thing I'm a 'little crazy' about...getting my cards out on December 1st! I love sending cards and receiving them because most of the time it's the only time of the year that I hear from people...except for Facebook (if they're on FB).
Last week I was truly on vacation (the first one I've taken this year), as I took my mom to New York City for her first visit ever! We had a lot of fun and filled our days full! My mom enjoyed ALL the sites and sounds of NYC and we really only saw 1/3 of the city. There is SO much to do and see and we just couldn't fit it all in, but what we did do was fun and memorable. When we arrived on Monday it was rainy but warm, but that all changed on Tuesday. The polar vortex sank down and it was in the low 30's with winds gusting up to 20-30 mph! It was freezing!! Literally! And so were our toes and fingers since it's such a walking city. I don't think my mom realized how much walking we'd do even though I warned her. She did pretty good, though, in keeping up and getting around the city. Of course we took some taxis but walking through Central Park is an experience all it's own. We honestly didn't do a lot of shopping and really only spent money on food and taxis! Go figure. But, my mom enjoyed her first visit to NYC and I enjoyed spending time with her!
So, now that the holidays are upon us...starting tomorrow...it's time to get in the holiday spirit! Decorations to put up, lights to trim our trees and houses, holiday treats to bake, Christmas cards to write, gifts to buy and wrap, and sharing it all with family and friends! So, no matter how quickly the holiday season flies by I hope you enjoy the sounds, the sights, the joy and laughter of the season! And, may you be safe and bountiful with your holiday shopping...starting either tomorrow or on Black Friday! Good luck and Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family! May you realize your blessings, share them with others and help those in need around you.
I'm thankful for my health, my family, my friends and for the opportunity to share my story with you and others! May you have a blessed Thanksgiving and holiday season ahead!!!
Wednesday, November 19, 2014
Vacation...Blissful!!
I'm on vacation, vacation, vacation!!! Ahh, time off to enjoy my surroundings, my company and recharge! I'll write more after I'm back from my trip, but wanted to check-in and wish you all a wonderful week! This posting is going to be short and sweet so I can get back to my vacation!!!
Blessings to you on this week before Thanksgiving!!
Blessings to you on this week before Thanksgiving!!
Sunday, November 16, 2014
Vacation...Finally!!
I know, I know...it's almost December and I haven't taken a vacation all year! Crazy! And, right now I feel it! I did take a week off for July 4th, but I didn't go anywhere. I just got "some stuff" done around the house. Fun. But, now I'm ready...really ready...to take a week off and just enjoy being off and away from home! Yippee!!
I tend to do this more often than not...work, work, work until the end of the year rolls around and then I have all my vacation days left to take. I've tried to get better over the years about taking a few days each quarter, but those few extra Friday's off aren't cutting it anymore. I need some real quality time off! Are you good about taking your vacation days?
So, I'm off for the week and then next week I'm off, too, because my company is closed for the Thanksgiving holiday (here in the States)! Yes, that's right...2 weeks off!! I didn't really plan it that way, but I'll take it! I can't wait!
Time to recharge the batteries...the mind...and get ready for the full holiday madness that is coming! I'm looking forward to relaxing, no work and no household chores to do for a week! And with all vacations there's the excuse to eat some sweet treats, too, right?! I'm definitely looking forward to that! :-)
So, enjoy your week ahead, as I know I will be, and get ready for Turkey Day next week! Blessings to you all this week!!
I tend to do this more often than not...work, work, work until the end of the year rolls around and then I have all my vacation days left to take. I've tried to get better over the years about taking a few days each quarter, but those few extra Friday's off aren't cutting it anymore. I need some real quality time off! Are you good about taking your vacation days?
So, I'm off for the week and then next week I'm off, too, because my company is closed for the Thanksgiving holiday (here in the States)! Yes, that's right...2 weeks off!! I didn't really plan it that way, but I'll take it! I can't wait!
Time to recharge the batteries...the mind...and get ready for the full holiday madness that is coming! I'm looking forward to relaxing, no work and no household chores to do for a week! And with all vacations there's the excuse to eat some sweet treats, too, right?! I'm definitely looking forward to that! :-)
So, enjoy your week ahead, as I know I will be, and get ready for Turkey Day next week! Blessings to you all this week!!
Wednesday, November 12, 2014
Seeing is Believing
As I've mentioned in an earlier post it's National Adoption Month! So, I hope you've been sharing your stories, reaching out to adoption organizations and supporting the gift of adoption around the world.
I ran across this article on The Huffington Post this week and wanted to share with you. It shows pictures of adoptive families and the first meetings with families bringing their new loved one home...to their forever home. It shows the raw emotions, the loving anticipation and the pure joy of the moment.
For many adoptive families it takes several years to finalize the adoption process and it seems like a sea of paperwork, phone calls and emails. The end never seems close enough and the process can be quite frustrating and overwhelming. But, these pictures show why it's worth it! Why the wait, the patience, the worry, the stress and the anticipation all pay off!
Here's a link to the article: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/11/10/adoption-photos_n_6064110.html
So, enjoy the pictures and share your story with others...with me! I would love to hear them! Have a blessed week ahead!!
I ran across this article on The Huffington Post this week and wanted to share with you. It shows pictures of adoptive families and the first meetings with families bringing their new loved one home...to their forever home. It shows the raw emotions, the loving anticipation and the pure joy of the moment.
For many adoptive families it takes several years to finalize the adoption process and it seems like a sea of paperwork, phone calls and emails. The end never seems close enough and the process can be quite frustrating and overwhelming. But, these pictures show why it's worth it! Why the wait, the patience, the worry, the stress and the anticipation all pay off!
Here's a link to the article: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/11/10/adoption-photos_n_6064110.html
So, enjoy the pictures and share your story with others...with me! I would love to hear them! Have a blessed week ahead!!
Sunday, November 9, 2014
Let the Holiday Shopping Commence!
Many of you start your holiday shopping early in the year and many of you start it around now. My mom and I have been to several craft fairs over the past month and we just went to our last one the other day. It's the biggest one that we go to and it has a ton of cute handmade crafts by artisans from all over. It's a lot of fun and gets you in the holiday spirit! I'd rather shop homemade crafts for the holidays versus what's in all the retail stores already!
When do you start your holiday shopping? Do you do all of your holiday shopping online, in retail stores or specialty shops? I think it's fun to mix it up a bit and I still like going to physical retail stores to do a majority of my holiday shopping. I know some people do all of their shopping online, but I haven't and probably won't convert completely over. Besides, I enjoy the time shopping with my mom too much to do all my shopping online.
I can't believe it's November already?! Where did this year go? Has this year flown by for you, too or are you ready for it to be over? It's always interesting to reflect back on a year, a month, a week to see what transpired versus what you think was going to happen. Most of the times, as we all know, it doesn't work out the way we planned or thought it would...sometimes it works out better and sometimes it doesn't. That's just life and if we could all just learn to live in the moment maybe we wouldn't have those expectations that let us down or discourage us. That's easier said than done, though and being a planner at heart it's hard for me not to plan out the next day, week or month ahead. It's just a natural thought-process for me. But, I'm trying to set that aside and enjoy moments throughout the day...one step at a time. Because when we're not in the moment, we steal the beauty of that moment and the gifts of what the present moment is giving us. That's how we 'skirt' through life not really living but just getting by or getting through it. So, although this year has flown by for me, there are moments in the past 11 months that I do remember and cherish just for the simplicity of what they were and that I was present in those moments to fully take in...life!
So, I hope you take a moment today to just "smell the roses" and take it all in...good or bad...because that's how we learn, grow and enjoy life more fully! Blessings to you today!
When do you start your holiday shopping? Do you do all of your holiday shopping online, in retail stores or specialty shops? I think it's fun to mix it up a bit and I still like going to physical retail stores to do a majority of my holiday shopping. I know some people do all of their shopping online, but I haven't and probably won't convert completely over. Besides, I enjoy the time shopping with my mom too much to do all my shopping online.
I can't believe it's November already?! Where did this year go? Has this year flown by for you, too or are you ready for it to be over? It's always interesting to reflect back on a year, a month, a week to see what transpired versus what you think was going to happen. Most of the times, as we all know, it doesn't work out the way we planned or thought it would...sometimes it works out better and sometimes it doesn't. That's just life and if we could all just learn to live in the moment maybe we wouldn't have those expectations that let us down or discourage us. That's easier said than done, though and being a planner at heart it's hard for me not to plan out the next day, week or month ahead. It's just a natural thought-process for me. But, I'm trying to set that aside and enjoy moments throughout the day...one step at a time. Because when we're not in the moment, we steal the beauty of that moment and the gifts of what the present moment is giving us. That's how we 'skirt' through life not really living but just getting by or getting through it. So, although this year has flown by for me, there are moments in the past 11 months that I do remember and cherish just for the simplicity of what they were and that I was present in those moments to fully take in...life!
So, I hope you take a moment today to just "smell the roses" and take it all in...good or bad...because that's how we learn, grow and enjoy life more fully! Blessings to you today!
Thursday, November 6, 2014
Finally....
Sorry for missing my last few posts, but I haven't been able to access the blogging tool. I'm not sure if it was their server or something wrong w/my computer, but sorry for the delay!
I had another 'first' the other day...I was at a store with my mom and I was walking ahead of my mom when an elderly woman came up to me and asked me about my husband and son. I said "What?" and she repeated "Is that your husband and son?" Obviously I said "no" right away and then she pointed to them. There was an Asian man sitting in a chair with his son on his chest and they were both sleeping. It was a sweet sighting, but also a bit funny because it was a normal assumption for anyone to make, I'm sure. My mom came up to see what the woman had asked me and I told her apparently I have a husband and son and then I pointed to the man and his son. We both giggled a bit and kept shopping.
If you haven't read my book yet it's really snippets of daily life like the one above. It gives you a glimpse into those kinds of assumptions or ironies of every day life for an adoptee. When you read the book, perhaps you'll wonder if you've ever done or said that or made those same assumptions about someone you've met. Hopefully it will open you eyes and understanding of what it's like to grow up being adopted and the misconceptions you and others may have about it.
It's National Adoption month, so during the month try to do at least one thing to learn more about adoption, what it's like to be adopted, talk to a friend or someone you know about their experiences of being adopted, or simply buy my book and read for yourself! You can purchase my book, Corn-fed with Rice on the Side, at www.kimfenneman.com. The e-book is also available on Amazon.com (just search on the title of the book or my name).
Blessings to you this first full week of daylight savings time as we all adjust to the time change!
I had another 'first' the other day...I was at a store with my mom and I was walking ahead of my mom when an elderly woman came up to me and asked me about my husband and son. I said "What?" and she repeated "Is that your husband and son?" Obviously I said "no" right away and then she pointed to them. There was an Asian man sitting in a chair with his son on his chest and they were both sleeping. It was a sweet sighting, but also a bit funny because it was a normal assumption for anyone to make, I'm sure. My mom came up to see what the woman had asked me and I told her apparently I have a husband and son and then I pointed to the man and his son. We both giggled a bit and kept shopping.
If you haven't read my book yet it's really snippets of daily life like the one above. It gives you a glimpse into those kinds of assumptions or ironies of every day life for an adoptee. When you read the book, perhaps you'll wonder if you've ever done or said that or made those same assumptions about someone you've met. Hopefully it will open you eyes and understanding of what it's like to grow up being adopted and the misconceptions you and others may have about it.
It's National Adoption month, so during the month try to do at least one thing to learn more about adoption, what it's like to be adopted, talk to a friend or someone you know about their experiences of being adopted, or simply buy my book and read for yourself! You can purchase my book, Corn-fed with Rice on the Side, at www.kimfenneman.com. The e-book is also available on Amazon.com (just search on the title of the book or my name).
Blessings to you this first full week of daylight savings time as we all adjust to the time change!
Wednesday, October 29, 2014
Happy Halloween!
Happy Halloween to you and your family (here in the States) a few days early!! I hope you and your little ones have a safe and fun-filled evening trick or treating!
I've never been a big Halloween person, but I do remember the plastic masks we used to wear in the late 70's. I know I had a Princess Leia costume from Star Wars with the hard to breathe mask. I think most girls have been a witch at least once in their lives, as I have, but I don't remember too many of my costumes growing up.
Now, it's just fun to see what interesting and cute and cuddly costumes my nieces and nephews decide to dress up in. It's still a fun holiday for kids, but I definitely don't like the scary part...including those haunted houses! I went in a few of those when I was younger and it's not my cup of tea, if you will. It's not that I mind being scared, I just don't find it that appealing. But, I know some people live for them and love this holiday.
So, for those that absolutely love Halloween...eat it up! Ha! And, enjoy the spooky ghosts and goblins that come your way this Friday!
Blessings to you on this o'Hallows eve (+ 1 day)!!
I've never been a big Halloween person, but I do remember the plastic masks we used to wear in the late 70's. I know I had a Princess Leia costume from Star Wars with the hard to breathe mask. I think most girls have been a witch at least once in their lives, as I have, but I don't remember too many of my costumes growing up.
Now, it's just fun to see what interesting and cute and cuddly costumes my nieces and nephews decide to dress up in. It's still a fun holiday for kids, but I definitely don't like the scary part...including those haunted houses! I went in a few of those when I was younger and it's not my cup of tea, if you will. It's not that I mind being scared, I just don't find it that appealing. But, I know some people live for them and love this holiday.
So, for those that absolutely love Halloween...eat it up! Ha! And, enjoy the spooky ghosts and goblins that come your way this Friday!
Blessings to you on this o'Hallows eve (+ 1 day)!!
Sunday, October 26, 2014
1 Week Until National Adoption Month!
This coming Saturday starts National Adoption Month!!! I know there are so many great awareness campaigns going on throughout the month! If you are going to be involved in any of them, please let me know what and how you are supporting National Adoption Month. I would love to hear from you!
Also, if I can help your organization in any way...via interview, article, speaking, etc....please let me know!! I would be happy to help spread the good news of adoption! I believe my story is a testament to what a positive and thriving experience it can be for all parties involved. It's what we're here for right? To give back, to share our experiences and to continue to grow and connect with others.
So, get ready....National Adoption Month is almost here!
Blessings to you this final week of October!!
Also, if I can help your organization in any way...via interview, article, speaking, etc....please let me know!! I would be happy to help spread the good news of adoption! I believe my story is a testament to what a positive and thriving experience it can be for all parties involved. It's what we're here for right? To give back, to share our experiences and to continue to grow and connect with others.
So, get ready....National Adoption Month is almost here!
Blessings to you this final week of October!!
Friday, October 24, 2014
Technical Glitches
Sorry again everyone for missing my post on Wednesday...for some reason I haven't been able to get into the posting site due to some technical glitches. I'm hoping they are resolved, but I'm either having some connection issues or there's something else going on.
In the meantime, things are fast and furious here...work is crazy busy right now as we've got our major tradeshow coming up next week, my dad's birthday is today, Halloween is coming up and all the other daily stuff that fills our lives has been buzzing around my head for 2 weeks now! I'm exhausted mentally. I think I need a mental health day...several!! If I can just get through next week with flying colors I'll be good! So, wish me luck! I need some quiet to fill my head, but I don't see that coming anytime soon.
I've also seen Christmas lights up on houses already! Did I miss Halloween and Thanksgiving (here in the States)? Christmas will be here quick enough, but I'm just not ready for it yet. I want to enjoy the fall season first! How about you?
I just want one day that I haven't planned to just do whatever I want...and hopefully that day is full of blue skies, cool fall temps and something good to eat! If you didn't know, I'm a planner by nature so I'm always planning...not today, but the next day, the next week, a month away! It's non-stop and lately I've been a planning maniac or at least it feels like it. I definitely have been better about living in the moment and being present than I ever have been in my life...BUT, I still plan...look ahead...worry about the next thing...so I'm trying to find that balance. Any suggestions?!
I hope this last week of October finds you well, ready for fall and ready for some trick-or-treaters (here in the States)! Enjoy the season and try not to plan one of your days during the week! Lets see if I can! Blessings to you and your family!
In the meantime, things are fast and furious here...work is crazy busy right now as we've got our major tradeshow coming up next week, my dad's birthday is today, Halloween is coming up and all the other daily stuff that fills our lives has been buzzing around my head for 2 weeks now! I'm exhausted mentally. I think I need a mental health day...several!! If I can just get through next week with flying colors I'll be good! So, wish me luck! I need some quiet to fill my head, but I don't see that coming anytime soon.
I've also seen Christmas lights up on houses already! Did I miss Halloween and Thanksgiving (here in the States)? Christmas will be here quick enough, but I'm just not ready for it yet. I want to enjoy the fall season first! How about you?
I just want one day that I haven't planned to just do whatever I want...and hopefully that day is full of blue skies, cool fall temps and something good to eat! If you didn't know, I'm a planner by nature so I'm always planning...not today, but the next day, the next week, a month away! It's non-stop and lately I've been a planning maniac or at least it feels like it. I definitely have been better about living in the moment and being present than I ever have been in my life...BUT, I still plan...look ahead...worry about the next thing...so I'm trying to find that balance. Any suggestions?!
I hope this last week of October finds you well, ready for fall and ready for some trick-or-treaters (here in the States)! Enjoy the season and try not to plan one of your days during the week! Lets see if I can! Blessings to you and your family!
Sunday, October 19, 2014
Calming Fears
There's been a lot of fear spreading fast and furiously over the past several weeks...on the dangers of catching Ebola. It's a scary thing, but sometimes our fears get the best of us...and understandably. It's something new in the United States, it's shown to be very deadly and it's very contagious. There's been so much news coverage of Ebola and the up-to-the-minute status of this and that especially in the Dallas/Fort Worth area. It's been never-ending. It's good to be informed, but sometimes the media does more harm than good by some of their coverage. It's been all about the bad...how bad the disease is, how poor the hospital's initial reaction and care have been, all the mistakes made, and how other people have been exposed to the disease. Again, it's been never-ending.
But, what about the good news stories? What about the positive and uplifting stories? Who is telling those stories? In this over-hyped media age, so many things the media reports is so over-dramatized. They report what they do to either one-up their competition or to get a strong reaction even if they are stretching the truth or over-selling the story in one way or another. And we as consumers either start to get immune by all the sensationalism or we react to every little warning or scare tactic thrown at us.
It can be overwhelming sometimes...all the bad news stories on day after day after day. So, how do we take in all that information, process it and use it for good? A moment of pause (first of all) and then a reflection of how it truly affects our lives and how we might possibly do something about it or make a difference. That's how we make a change in our lives...and in the world. One person at a time. One step at a time. One conscious decision at a time.
So, don't let the fears of all the world's problems get you down. Empower yourself to be educated and then to take action! It's the only life we have, so don't waste it! Blessings to you this week!
Thursday, October 16, 2014
The Wait...
I have a saying on my fridge and one line of it states, "Your health is your most valuable asset." It's so true, but it's something I think many of us take for granted on a daily basis...unless you're sick or have a lingering illness. It's a scary thing when you don't have your health.
Yesterday I took my mom in for a procedure and the whole morning leading up to it my stomach was churning. It was worried. Understandably, she spent the morning doing the same thing. Her stomach was in knots full of worry, too. It was a normal reaction to the unknown, but we both said a few prayers to calm our nerves and lead us towards the grace of God.
The procedure went well and we'll find out the results today, but the waiting beforehand and during the procedure was hard. As I was waiting for her during the procedure, I kept thinking about all the other people that are dealing with life-changing health problems. The ones that have to keep coming back to the hospital for treatments. The strength and courage they face everyday to keep fighting their own fight.
None of us know what tomorrow will bring, but I pray we all have the courage and the strength to face it with faith, determination and love. May you have continued blessings today and everyday!
Yesterday I took my mom in for a procedure and the whole morning leading up to it my stomach was churning. It was worried. Understandably, she spent the morning doing the same thing. Her stomach was in knots full of worry, too. It was a normal reaction to the unknown, but we both said a few prayers to calm our nerves and lead us towards the grace of God.
The procedure went well and we'll find out the results today, but the waiting beforehand and during the procedure was hard. As I was waiting for her during the procedure, I kept thinking about all the other people that are dealing with life-changing health problems. The ones that have to keep coming back to the hospital for treatments. The strength and courage they face everyday to keep fighting their own fight.
None of us know what tomorrow will bring, but I pray we all have the courage and the strength to face it with faith, determination and love. May you have continued blessings today and everyday!
Sunday, October 12, 2014
Fall Frenzy....
Sorry I missed Wednesday's regular post, but my computer has been having some issues this past week connecting and I couldn't get to the page to post a new update. But, it seems to be OK for the moment....
So, what's the latest? Well, I've been reaching out to more adoption agencies and support groups to try and get some interest going...plus, I'd like to get in touch with some New York City publications and/or agencies since I'll be in New York City next month. I'd love to get some face-to-face time with a few organizations that could help promote my book. So, if you know of any publications (newspapers, magazines, online publications, etc) or any adoption agencies, or support organizations, please let me know. You can email me at kimfenneman@gmail.com. Thank you for your support!!
Yesterday was the first chilly fall day that we've had here in Texas. It was supposed to warm up later in the day and the sun was supposed to come, but it didn't. It stayed gray, cloudy and chilly all day. It was great and added to the fun of going around to different craft fairs (for the first time this fall) with my mom. We always enjoy getting out to different craft fairs in the fall and it builds up the excitement to Thanksgiving and Christmas!
On Friday, my mom and I took one of my nieces and two of my nephews to a pumpkin patch nearby where we went through the hay maze, took a hay ride, jumped in the bouncy house and picked out some cute little pumpkins. Then we took them to our local Heritage Museum where they actually looked at everything and learned about the history of the town I live in. They loved and laughed at the old black and white short film of a man on a train that had to no sound which was pretty amazing that they sat down to watch it. And, my oldest nephew was thrilled to see and play the original Nintendo with the original Super Mario Brothers. He said it was better than the one now! Go figure! See, sometimes 'old school' is better!
So, it seems that fall is kicking into gear and things are picking up! The holiday madness will soon be upon us, but I want to enjoy the cooler temperatures for a couple months first. I love the cool, crisp air and solid blue skies during the fall. It's my favorite time of year!
So, enjoy the weather changing and whatever season you may be experiencing (around the world) as we get closer to the end of another year. Slow down your daily 'frenzy' if you need to and just take a deep breath in. Many blessings to you in the week ahead!
So, what's the latest? Well, I've been reaching out to more adoption agencies and support groups to try and get some interest going...plus, I'd like to get in touch with some New York City publications and/or agencies since I'll be in New York City next month. I'd love to get some face-to-face time with a few organizations that could help promote my book. So, if you know of any publications (newspapers, magazines, online publications, etc) or any adoption agencies, or support organizations, please let me know. You can email me at kimfenneman@gmail.com. Thank you for your support!!
Yesterday was the first chilly fall day that we've had here in Texas. It was supposed to warm up later in the day and the sun was supposed to come, but it didn't. It stayed gray, cloudy and chilly all day. It was great and added to the fun of going around to different craft fairs (for the first time this fall) with my mom. We always enjoy getting out to different craft fairs in the fall and it builds up the excitement to Thanksgiving and Christmas!
On Friday, my mom and I took one of my nieces and two of my nephews to a pumpkin patch nearby where we went through the hay maze, took a hay ride, jumped in the bouncy house and picked out some cute little pumpkins. Then we took them to our local Heritage Museum where they actually looked at everything and learned about the history of the town I live in. They loved and laughed at the old black and white short film of a man on a train that had to no sound which was pretty amazing that they sat down to watch it. And, my oldest nephew was thrilled to see and play the original Nintendo with the original Super Mario Brothers. He said it was better than the one now! Go figure! See, sometimes 'old school' is better!
So, it seems that fall is kicking into gear and things are picking up! The holiday madness will soon be upon us, but I want to enjoy the cooler temperatures for a couple months first. I love the cool, crisp air and solid blue skies during the fall. It's my favorite time of year!
So, enjoy the weather changing and whatever season you may be experiencing (around the world) as we get closer to the end of another year. Slow down your daily 'frenzy' if you need to and just take a deep breath in. Many blessings to you in the week ahead!
Sunday, October 5, 2014
Call for Adoption Orgs
November is National Adoption Month....so, if anyone has any recommendations of adoption organizations that would be interested in doing a feature/article/interview/book signing, etc. of my book, Corn-fed with Rice on the Side, please let me know. I'd love to get some national exposure for my book and would appreciate any local/state/regional organizations you are aware of. Please contact me at kimfenneman@gmail.com.
Continuing to spread the word and my story of adoption with others! I hope it continues to inspire, bring hope and inspiration to others. Thank you for your continued support in my '1st time author' journey!
Blessings to you this week and I hope you're enjoying the cooler fall temperatures!
Continuing to spread the word and my story of adoption with others! I hope it continues to inspire, bring hope and inspiration to others. Thank you for your continued support in my '1st time author' journey!
Blessings to you this week and I hope you're enjoying the cooler fall temperatures!
Wednesday, October 1, 2014
Birthdays Abound
October is the busiest birthday month for my family. My younger brother and sister (the twins) have their birthday, my oldest nephew the day after, my dad later in the month and I have a few friends with birthdays, too! So, it's a busy month of celebrations...and lots of cake!
There's usually that 1 month out of the year that's the busiest for all families and October is it for us. So, as I look ahead at all the celebrations to come...and all the gifts to buy...it's a time to reflect on what phase of life each person is celebrating. The twins are in their early 30's (so in most cases of...30 year olds...have established their careers and are looking for advancement), my oldest nephew will be 9 years old (ohhh, the memories of being 9...I remember it so well because it's the age I was when we moved from IA to TX), and my dad will be in his late 60's (not as spry as he once was and a little grumpier, too). All in such different places in their lives and looking ahead at such different futures. It's pretty interesting to think about.
The twins should be hitting their strides and really finding out where they want to go in their careers because now they've had enough life experiences to know what they like, want and don't like or want. However, they're both not quite there yet and as their older sister I'll always be concerned and want the best for them. My nephew on the other hand, he's got his whole life in front of him! But, when I see my friend's kids who are 8 or 9 (and now my nephew) I can't help but think of myself at that age because it's when we had our house fire, moved to TX and my whole life changed. I look at them and think "Wow, I was that age when all that happened?" I can't even imagine. Who knows what life will hold for my nephew and what struggles and tragedies he will face in his lifetime, but looking at him now at this age I think of my youth. And then there's my dad who I've always adored and looked up to. I never really thought about him getting old...no, I mean really old...each year because he always kept so busy and active. But, now as I see old age catching up with him and him slowing down a bit it makes more wonder about the next phase of life with my parents as they do get older and have more health problems. It's a scary thought. I've been around a lot of senior citizens growing up and it was always different because I never saw my parents that way. But, I think over the next 5-10 years it'll really be part of all our lives as we help and support our parents more.
That's the beauty (and yes, the stress, joy, concern and happiness) of life! We all go through those different phases of life...grade school, high school, college, our first jobs, our first relationships, marriage, kids, getting older, etc. But, we all go through them with different perspectives, different experiences and different expectations. That's life...for each one of us! And that's part of my intent for writing my book...to show the different phases of my life so that you and others could see how it was to be adopted and to see it from a very real view of daily life...those everyday experiences we all go through.
So, whatever month is your busiest birthday month, may all those celebrating find their joy at whatever age they are in and continue to enjoy the different phases of life! Many blessings to you on this first day of October!
There's usually that 1 month out of the year that's the busiest for all families and October is it for us. So, as I look ahead at all the celebrations to come...and all the gifts to buy...it's a time to reflect on what phase of life each person is celebrating. The twins are in their early 30's (so in most cases of...30 year olds...have established their careers and are looking for advancement), my oldest nephew will be 9 years old (ohhh, the memories of being 9...I remember it so well because it's the age I was when we moved from IA to TX), and my dad will be in his late 60's (not as spry as he once was and a little grumpier, too). All in such different places in their lives and looking ahead at such different futures. It's pretty interesting to think about.
The twins should be hitting their strides and really finding out where they want to go in their careers because now they've had enough life experiences to know what they like, want and don't like or want. However, they're both not quite there yet and as their older sister I'll always be concerned and want the best for them. My nephew on the other hand, he's got his whole life in front of him! But, when I see my friend's kids who are 8 or 9 (and now my nephew) I can't help but think of myself at that age because it's when we had our house fire, moved to TX and my whole life changed. I look at them and think "Wow, I was that age when all that happened?" I can't even imagine. Who knows what life will hold for my nephew and what struggles and tragedies he will face in his lifetime, but looking at him now at this age I think of my youth. And then there's my dad who I've always adored and looked up to. I never really thought about him getting old...no, I mean really old...each year because he always kept so busy and active. But, now as I see old age catching up with him and him slowing down a bit it makes more wonder about the next phase of life with my parents as they do get older and have more health problems. It's a scary thought. I've been around a lot of senior citizens growing up and it was always different because I never saw my parents that way. But, I think over the next 5-10 years it'll really be part of all our lives as we help and support our parents more.
That's the beauty (and yes, the stress, joy, concern and happiness) of life! We all go through those different phases of life...grade school, high school, college, our first jobs, our first relationships, marriage, kids, getting older, etc. But, we all go through them with different perspectives, different experiences and different expectations. That's life...for each one of us! And that's part of my intent for writing my book...to show the different phases of my life so that you and others could see how it was to be adopted and to see it from a very real view of daily life...those everyday experiences we all go through.
So, whatever month is your busiest birthday month, may all those celebrating find their joy at whatever age they are in and continue to enjoy the different phases of life! Many blessings to you on this first day of October!
Sunday, September 28, 2014
Daily Grind
I work-out regularly every week so it's just part of my daily routine...but, there are some days the 'normal routine' seems like a daily grind of "here we go again." Do you ever feel that way? This morning I just wasn't in the mood to work-out which is fairly rare, but I did it and got it done! I went to church with my mom and then we went out for a little brunch. Then as we do most weekends we ran errands...mainly to organic grocery stores. As soon as I got home a load of laundry went into the wash and some chicken into the oven for the week ahead. Basically the same thing I do every weekend....
So, today felt like one of those 'grind it out' days...just get it done! Don't get me wrong, I enjoyed the time I spent with my mom today and sharing funny stories, but it sort of felt like I had stepped onto the same carousel from the weekend before that and the weekend before that....round and round we go.
Some days it just feels like the same 'ole thing and that's not necessarily a good or bad thing. Some days it just feels more "blah" than normal and acceptable. I'll take a "blah" day over a dramatic or tragic day anytime, so I'm not complaining. It just stood out to me today while I was at the gym. I definitely don't want a crazy or stressful day to break up the monotony, but that's usually what happens. That's life, right?
So, whether it's just another 'grind it out day' or a day of overwhelming chaos I know I'll remain grateful for the day. Each day is a gift and no matter how simple, complex, overwhelming, stressful, or happy it is I'm grateful for it all! Grateful for the time, the lessons, new people crossing my path, friends and family sharing and supporting me along the way, and for the hope of another new day! Blessings to you this week! No matter what tomorrow brings, may you approach it with a grateful heart!!
So, today felt like one of those 'grind it out' days...just get it done! Don't get me wrong, I enjoyed the time I spent with my mom today and sharing funny stories, but it sort of felt like I had stepped onto the same carousel from the weekend before that and the weekend before that....round and round we go.
Some days it just feels like the same 'ole thing and that's not necessarily a good or bad thing. Some days it just feels more "blah" than normal and acceptable. I'll take a "blah" day over a dramatic or tragic day anytime, so I'm not complaining. It just stood out to me today while I was at the gym. I definitely don't want a crazy or stressful day to break up the monotony, but that's usually what happens. That's life, right?
So, whether it's just another 'grind it out day' or a day of overwhelming chaos I know I'll remain grateful for the day. Each day is a gift and no matter how simple, complex, overwhelming, stressful, or happy it is I'm grateful for it all! Grateful for the time, the lessons, new people crossing my path, friends and family sharing and supporting me along the way, and for the hope of another new day! Blessings to you this week! No matter what tomorrow brings, may you approach it with a grateful heart!!
Wednesday, September 24, 2014
The Last Quarter...
We're approaching the last quarter of the year. If you work in any corporate setting you're aware of each quarter of time because it affects your sales cycle, budgets, when you plan events and campaigns, when you launch new products and when you run promotional ads, etc. At my company, we had our quarter end today so needless-to-say it was pretty hectic and frenetic at work today.
Where have the past 9 months gone?! What happened to this year? Where did the summer go? How are we almost already in October?! This year has flown by and I don't know if that's a good thing or a bad thing because I don't feel like I've accomplished anything yet. The year can't be over yet! I need more time! It seems we're always in a struggle with time...either we don't have enough or it's dragging on forever! I feel like time is running out on this year and the last quarter of the year always seems to race by because of all the holidays. It's always such a busy time of year, so I'm wondering how I'm going to accomplish a fraction of the things I wanted to this year in only 3 short months!
I know that can be a lifetime for many and just one more day for others is precious, so I'm not taking it lightly. I just found out this week that a guy that always comes into our office for quarter end just had a heart attack 6 weeks earlier and this was his first trip away since his heart attack. Even though it wouldn't have been the same not to see him in the office for quarter end it's a great reminder that life is fragile and can change in the blink of an eye. It happens every day. We're never prepared for it, but it is part of life and all we can do is live each day to the fullest, have no regrets and be thankful for every moment.
How many times have you heard that? Do you believe it? I do, but sometimes it doesn't hit home because we hear it so many times throughout our lives. Sometimes it doesn't hit home until something dramatic happens...usually something tragic, but it shouldn't take a tragic event to make us realize how blessed we are...to be sitting in traffic (although we've lost our patience 20 miles ago) or standing in the check-out line where the clerk or the customer are taking forever or when we didn't get that new job or promotion we've been working so hard on. Those are all just moments in time that will pass and we'll move onto the next thing. But, I always try to ask myself when I'm getting impatient or a little frustrated with a situation, "Will this matter in a month...a week...a day?" Usually the answer is no, so I just shrug it off and think of something productive or positive. We can choose how we feel about a situation and how we react to it. Most of the time we're all on auto-pilot and instant reaction mode vs. just being present in the moment and being at peace with the situation. Don't get me wrong, sometimes that's impossible to do and there are situations that call for a dramatic reaction, such as a house fire. But, in small everyday situations that we all go through we do have control over our own emotions and reactions.
So, I'm challenging myself to continue to be more present in each day in each moment and to be as productive as possible in this last quarter of the year. Productive on my own 'to-do' list. So, whatever goals you have yet to accomplish in the next 3 months I wish you good luck, great success and satisfaction! Blessings to you in all your accomplishments....great or small!
Where have the past 9 months gone?! What happened to this year? Where did the summer go? How are we almost already in October?! This year has flown by and I don't know if that's a good thing or a bad thing because I don't feel like I've accomplished anything yet. The year can't be over yet! I need more time! It seems we're always in a struggle with time...either we don't have enough or it's dragging on forever! I feel like time is running out on this year and the last quarter of the year always seems to race by because of all the holidays. It's always such a busy time of year, so I'm wondering how I'm going to accomplish a fraction of the things I wanted to this year in only 3 short months!
I know that can be a lifetime for many and just one more day for others is precious, so I'm not taking it lightly. I just found out this week that a guy that always comes into our office for quarter end just had a heart attack 6 weeks earlier and this was his first trip away since his heart attack. Even though it wouldn't have been the same not to see him in the office for quarter end it's a great reminder that life is fragile and can change in the blink of an eye. It happens every day. We're never prepared for it, but it is part of life and all we can do is live each day to the fullest, have no regrets and be thankful for every moment.
How many times have you heard that? Do you believe it? I do, but sometimes it doesn't hit home because we hear it so many times throughout our lives. Sometimes it doesn't hit home until something dramatic happens...usually something tragic, but it shouldn't take a tragic event to make us realize how blessed we are...to be sitting in traffic (although we've lost our patience 20 miles ago) or standing in the check-out line where the clerk or the customer are taking forever or when we didn't get that new job or promotion we've been working so hard on. Those are all just moments in time that will pass and we'll move onto the next thing. But, I always try to ask myself when I'm getting impatient or a little frustrated with a situation, "Will this matter in a month...a week...a day?" Usually the answer is no, so I just shrug it off and think of something productive or positive. We can choose how we feel about a situation and how we react to it. Most of the time we're all on auto-pilot and instant reaction mode vs. just being present in the moment and being at peace with the situation. Don't get me wrong, sometimes that's impossible to do and there are situations that call for a dramatic reaction, such as a house fire. But, in small everyday situations that we all go through we do have control over our own emotions and reactions.
So, I'm challenging myself to continue to be more present in each day in each moment and to be as productive as possible in this last quarter of the year. Productive on my own 'to-do' list. So, whatever goals you have yet to accomplish in the next 3 months I wish you good luck, great success and satisfaction! Blessings to you in all your accomplishments....great or small!
Sunday, September 21, 2014
Almost October...
Sorry I missed my post on Wednesday...it was a pretty stressful day from the start and my heart was pretty heavy all day. My mind was definitely pre-occupied by some family matters so it would've been hard to write something.
But alas, it's a new day and I hope all is well wherever you are reading this from! The sun is shining (here in Texas, albeit a little humid still) and the sermon at church today was a good one. Right now my church is doing a sermon series on the "Seven Vices (or deadly sins)" and we've already done envy and vainglory. Definitely look up the definitions of both of them even if you think you know what they mean. This week's sermon was on sloth...no, not the animal! Although there were several good jokes about the animal during the service.
Do you know what the opposite of love is? Most of us would say hate and that's what I was thinking when the question was posed today. The answer is indifference and that's what sloth means...lack of caring. Acedia is the same as sloth, just an older word, but they both mean lack of caring. Initially when I hear sloth I think of lazy or dirty and those aren't sins, but being indifferent in life, in your relationships, in your work, etc. can be considered a sin. You're not living life, honoring yourself or others and not loving God or people. Love God, love people, do something about it.
So, as we approach October and really get into fall (at least here in the States), may I (and you if you choose to) grow a stronger relationship to God (or whomever you believe in), understand and accept old/new people in my life and try to make a difference in someone's life each day. It's the season of bounty...of thanksgiving...and of Christmas...so, lets let our love light up the world!
Blessings to you this last full week of September!
But alas, it's a new day and I hope all is well wherever you are reading this from! The sun is shining (here in Texas, albeit a little humid still) and the sermon at church today was a good one. Right now my church is doing a sermon series on the "Seven Vices (or deadly sins)" and we've already done envy and vainglory. Definitely look up the definitions of both of them even if you think you know what they mean. This week's sermon was on sloth...no, not the animal! Although there were several good jokes about the animal during the service.
Do you know what the opposite of love is? Most of us would say hate and that's what I was thinking when the question was posed today. The answer is indifference and that's what sloth means...lack of caring. Acedia is the same as sloth, just an older word, but they both mean lack of caring. Initially when I hear sloth I think of lazy or dirty and those aren't sins, but being indifferent in life, in your relationships, in your work, etc. can be considered a sin. You're not living life, honoring yourself or others and not loving God or people. Love God, love people, do something about it.
So, as we approach October and really get into fall (at least here in the States), may I (and you if you choose to) grow a stronger relationship to God (or whomever you believe in), understand and accept old/new people in my life and try to make a difference in someone's life each day. It's the season of bounty...of thanksgiving...and of Christmas...so, lets let our love light up the world!
Blessings to you this last full week of September!
Sunday, September 14, 2014
Remembering....
"We Will Never Forget" has become a theme every 9/11 since the tragedy happened 13 years ago. I saw it posted on Facebook a least a dozen times this past 9/11. It evokes so many memories and emotions from that horrible day...the live pictures of it unfolding right in front of our eyes. The unbelievable sights we were seeing, the smoke billowing out of both buildings, the unthinkable sheer horror of seeing one building crumble to the ground and then the other, the ash covering everything and everyone...just the complete shock of it all. I was glued to the TV all day, as I know many Americans were. We were frozen in our tracks...mesmerized and haunted by what we were seeing.
How could this happen? What was happening? What was coming next? The panic, the concern, the initial sense of helplessness. We all felt it. We all know exactly where we were when we heard the news or saw the pictures. I had just come back from an early morning run when I walked in the door, turned on Good Morning America and within 10 minutes of walking back in the door tragedy had struck! That quickly...in an instant...the world had changed. I was stopped in my tracks in my apartment...just standing there and not moving for several minutes. Then I sat for the rest of the day with a huge numbing, gut wrenching, sad feeling. It lingered with me all day. The world had stopped except for what I was seeing on TV...those people...all those poor innocent people. Tears.
Every year since it seems like a lifetime ago, but it conjures up all those images and feelings all over again. I had traveled to New York City for the first time earlier in 2001, March I believe, and even went to the top of the Empire State building to take pictures of the city...which included several pictures of the Twin Towers standing tall above some low hanging clouds. It's strange to look at those pictures now.
And then my first trip back to New York City after 9/11 happened in October of 2002. I was there for a work event and unbeknownst to me the hotel I booked was directly across the street from Ground Zero. There it stood...just feet away from me...walking the same streets as all of those people running away from the area only a year ago. I remember there being a lot of activity down by Ground Zero while I was there because Prince Charles was coming into town and was going to go down to Ground Zero to visit the area. It was sad and a little eerie to be walking around that area during that time.
But, I also remember all the American flags hanging on doorsteps across America after 9/11. It's been that solidarity, that strength that has led us through those difficult days. And it's been our faith in humanity, in one another to rebuild, to persevere and to rise above the ashes. It's who we are and why this is the best country to live in. We are one!
Blessings to all those families, friends, first responders and military personnel who were directly affected by 9/11. We are all with you and we 'will never forget!'
How could this happen? What was happening? What was coming next? The panic, the concern, the initial sense of helplessness. We all felt it. We all know exactly where we were when we heard the news or saw the pictures. I had just come back from an early morning run when I walked in the door, turned on Good Morning America and within 10 minutes of walking back in the door tragedy had struck! That quickly...in an instant...the world had changed. I was stopped in my tracks in my apartment...just standing there and not moving for several minutes. Then I sat for the rest of the day with a huge numbing, gut wrenching, sad feeling. It lingered with me all day. The world had stopped except for what I was seeing on TV...those people...all those poor innocent people. Tears.
Every year since it seems like a lifetime ago, but it conjures up all those images and feelings all over again. I had traveled to New York City for the first time earlier in 2001, March I believe, and even went to the top of the Empire State building to take pictures of the city...which included several pictures of the Twin Towers standing tall above some low hanging clouds. It's strange to look at those pictures now.
And then my first trip back to New York City after 9/11 happened in October of 2002. I was there for a work event and unbeknownst to me the hotel I booked was directly across the street from Ground Zero. There it stood...just feet away from me...walking the same streets as all of those people running away from the area only a year ago. I remember there being a lot of activity down by Ground Zero while I was there because Prince Charles was coming into town and was going to go down to Ground Zero to visit the area. It was sad and a little eerie to be walking around that area during that time.
But, I also remember all the American flags hanging on doorsteps across America after 9/11. It's been that solidarity, that strength that has led us through those difficult days. And it's been our faith in humanity, in one another to rebuild, to persevere and to rise above the ashes. It's who we are and why this is the best country to live in. We are one!
Blessings to all those families, friends, first responders and military personnel who were directly affected by 9/11. We are all with you and we 'will never forget!'
Wednesday, September 10, 2014
Breaking News Overload
The past few days I feel like there's always some 'breaking news' that may or may not be categorized as breaking news. I think we've all been desensitized by that term over the past several years with the cable news stream 24/7. Now when CNN or any other news channel posts 'breaking news' it just seems like regular news. Remember way back when 10-15 years ago when 'breaking news' used to really mean breaking news?!
Now everything they report is 'breaking news.' How can that be possible? Doesn't anyone know how to prioritize critical, life-changing news information anymore? Or are we just supposed to accept the 100's of news stories a day that are 'breaking news'?
Yes, I don't have to tune into those news channels, but any daytime talk show, sports show or entertainment show all carry the same news stories during any given day. And, it's all constantly streaming on Facebook, Twitter, and other social media outlets/apps. It's one constant, never-ending stream of information. Information overload? Possibly.
How do you process all the information thrown at you everyday...from work, family, friends, news outlets, social media, etc? Perhaps I just need a little mental break from all the 'breaking news' out there. But, I may have to travel out to the middle of a forest or desert in order to accomplish that fully. Until then, the TV is getting turned off early, the computer and smartphone are sitting in another room completely and I'm either opening a book, the bible or meditating on the present. Overload detox commence.
Blessings to you the rest of this week and hoping you find some peace of mind, too!
Now everything they report is 'breaking news.' How can that be possible? Doesn't anyone know how to prioritize critical, life-changing news information anymore? Or are we just supposed to accept the 100's of news stories a day that are 'breaking news'?
Yes, I don't have to tune into those news channels, but any daytime talk show, sports show or entertainment show all carry the same news stories during any given day. And, it's all constantly streaming on Facebook, Twitter, and other social media outlets/apps. It's one constant, never-ending stream of information. Information overload? Possibly.
How do you process all the information thrown at you everyday...from work, family, friends, news outlets, social media, etc? Perhaps I just need a little mental break from all the 'breaking news' out there. But, I may have to travel out to the middle of a forest or desert in order to accomplish that fully. Until then, the TV is getting turned off early, the computer and smartphone are sitting in another room completely and I'm either opening a book, the bible or meditating on the present. Overload detox commence.
Blessings to you the rest of this week and hoping you find some peace of mind, too!
Sunday, September 7, 2014
10 Life Laws....
I saw this post on Facebook the other day and thought it was too good not to share. I'm not a Dr. Phil watcher (unlike my mom), but I do think he has some good base level philosophies and common sense values that many of us should try to remember...live by...and share.
Dr. Phil is straight-forward and direct with his advice and doesn't sugar-coat anything. I think that's why most people like him. So, I like these 10 Life Laws...especially, #5 and #6. No one said they were easy, but they definitely get to the core of who you are and what you want out of life. Which ones resonate with you?
Dr. Phil's 10 Life Laws:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/08/29/dr-phil-life-laws_n_5734666.html?ncid=fcbklnkushpmg00000063
Hope you have a blessed week ahead!!
Dr. Phil is straight-forward and direct with his advice and doesn't sugar-coat anything. I think that's why most people like him. So, I like these 10 Life Laws...especially, #5 and #6. No one said they were easy, but they definitely get to the core of who you are and what you want out of life. Which ones resonate with you?
Dr. Phil's 10 Life Laws:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/08/29/dr-phil-life-laws_n_5734666.html?ncid=fcbklnkushpmg00000063
Hope you have a blessed week ahead!!
Wednesday, September 3, 2014
Fall Approaching...
Fall is right around the corner! As I've mentioned before it's my favorite time of year! A light jacket for the cool breeze, leaves turning vibrant colors, fireplaces burning, high school football (stadium lights, the bands, cheerleaders and of course, the drill team), pumpkin pie everything, and for me the best time of year...football, hockey, basketball and baseball playoffs!!
What do you love about fall? The kids are getting settled into their new school routines, daylight savings time means traveling home from work in the dark, and hot chocolate is a must! It does take a good week or so after daylight savings time kicks in to get used to it getting dark so early, but after that it really does feel like football season has officially kicked off!
Since we had such a mild winter this year in Texas, it doesn't feel like the usual long, long summer. It feels like "where did the summer go?!" I can't believe there are only 4 months left in the year, but time flies. I know there's been a lot of crazy weather around the country this year, more so than normal, but I hope that everyone is safe, rebuilding and recovering well. Lets hope for a "normal" winter!
As we transition into fall I hope you have fond summer vacation memories and enjoy the cooler, brisk fall weather approaching. Blessings to you the rest of this week!
What do you love about fall? The kids are getting settled into their new school routines, daylight savings time means traveling home from work in the dark, and hot chocolate is a must! It does take a good week or so after daylight savings time kicks in to get used to it getting dark so early, but after that it really does feel like football season has officially kicked off!
Since we had such a mild winter this year in Texas, it doesn't feel like the usual long, long summer. It feels like "where did the summer go?!" I can't believe there are only 4 months left in the year, but time flies. I know there's been a lot of crazy weather around the country this year, more so than normal, but I hope that everyone is safe, rebuilding and recovering well. Lets hope for a "normal" winter!
As we transition into fall I hope you have fond summer vacation memories and enjoy the cooler, brisk fall weather approaching. Blessings to you the rest of this week!
Monday, September 1, 2014
A Year Ago Yesterday...
Sorry I missed my usual Sunday post (since I normally post on Sunday's and Wednesday's), but I've been reflecting on how I was feeling 1 year ago and what has happened since then as an official author. It's still a little hard to believe sometimes....I'm an author. But, a year ago yesterday I opened the first shipment of my book and actually held MY book in my hands! Amazing!
I can't believe a whole year has gone by already! It was a fast and furious ride starting off...scheduling book signings, doing promotions (online and in print), writing articles/blogs and doing interviews. It was an exciting and exhausting time considering I still had a day job, as well. This was truly my night job for several months. Things slowed down a bit at the beginning of the year although I did do a few more articles and book signings. But, over the past several months I've taken a bit of a break...more so due to traveling and being busy with my day job and concentrating on other family matters. Sometimes 'life' just gets in the way. But, now that I've hit my 1 year anniversary of the publication of my 1st book it's time to crank it back into gear again! Let's see what the next year will hold!!
But, looking back on what I've been able to accomplish over the past year...the numerous book signings at local establishments around DFW, and of course, the first one back in my hometown in Iowa where I've met so many old and new friends was joyful! I loved hearing other people's stories about their own adoptions or their friend's adoptions or parents who were waiting to adopt. I loved hearing about the similarities in our stories or laughing about them...and sharing that bond of adoption with one another. I've been honored and amazed to have written articles, blogs or have been interviewed by numerous publications that I never thought I'd have the opportunity to share my story with and to reach new audiences. I'm so grateful to all those that have reached out to me to share my story with their groups, organizations, viewers/subscribers, families and friends.
It's been a gift to be able to share my positive, funny, ironic and uplifting story with those open and willing to receive it. We all have our own personal and special 'light' to share with the world and through my book I've been able to do that (just a little bit) this past year. I hope to extend my reach and my audience over the next year and continue to "let my light shine!" I hope whatever passion, gift, or cause you are driven by brings out the 'light' in your life! One thing I do know, at least for now, my day job doesn't define who I am. My day job has nothing to do with my night job and I think anyone with a passion or who volunteers a lot can relate to that. I would love for my night job to be my day job and maybe that'll be my goal over the next year, but until then reality is reality.
So, throughout this entire process I've really just taken things as they've come...not expecting anything, not knowing what to expect and being truly grateful for each new experience I've been able to be a part of and share with others. It's been a blessing and a gift and I thank you all for coming on this new ride with me. Thank you for your support, your encouragement and your love! I really appreciate it! Now, lets see what exciting opportunities the year ahead will bring!
Remember, if you haven't purchased your copy of my book yet you can go to www.kimfenneman.com to order a hard copy or you can go to Amazon.com to order an ebook copy of the book! And, I'm always happy to come speak to your group/organization/book club/etc, write an article or do an interview about my book so please reach out to my anytime at kimfenneman@gmail.com.
Thank you for all the wonderful memories in this 1st year of being an author! Bless you for your love, support and for following my journey! Now, let YOUR light shine!!!
I can't believe a whole year has gone by already! It was a fast and furious ride starting off...scheduling book signings, doing promotions (online and in print), writing articles/blogs and doing interviews. It was an exciting and exhausting time considering I still had a day job, as well. This was truly my night job for several months. Things slowed down a bit at the beginning of the year although I did do a few more articles and book signings. But, over the past several months I've taken a bit of a break...more so due to traveling and being busy with my day job and concentrating on other family matters. Sometimes 'life' just gets in the way. But, now that I've hit my 1 year anniversary of the publication of my 1st book it's time to crank it back into gear again! Let's see what the next year will hold!!
But, looking back on what I've been able to accomplish over the past year...the numerous book signings at local establishments around DFW, and of course, the first one back in my hometown in Iowa where I've met so many old and new friends was joyful! I loved hearing other people's stories about their own adoptions or their friend's adoptions or parents who were waiting to adopt. I loved hearing about the similarities in our stories or laughing about them...and sharing that bond of adoption with one another. I've been honored and amazed to have written articles, blogs or have been interviewed by numerous publications that I never thought I'd have the opportunity to share my story with and to reach new audiences. I'm so grateful to all those that have reached out to me to share my story with their groups, organizations, viewers/subscribers, families and friends.
It's been a gift to be able to share my positive, funny, ironic and uplifting story with those open and willing to receive it. We all have our own personal and special 'light' to share with the world and through my book I've been able to do that (just a little bit) this past year. I hope to extend my reach and my audience over the next year and continue to "let my light shine!" I hope whatever passion, gift, or cause you are driven by brings out the 'light' in your life! One thing I do know, at least for now, my day job doesn't define who I am. My day job has nothing to do with my night job and I think anyone with a passion or who volunteers a lot can relate to that. I would love for my night job to be my day job and maybe that'll be my goal over the next year, but until then reality is reality.
So, throughout this entire process I've really just taken things as they've come...not expecting anything, not knowing what to expect and being truly grateful for each new experience I've been able to be a part of and share with others. It's been a blessing and a gift and I thank you all for coming on this new ride with me. Thank you for your support, your encouragement and your love! I really appreciate it! Now, lets see what exciting opportunities the year ahead will bring!
Remember, if you haven't purchased your copy of my book yet you can go to www.kimfenneman.com to order a hard copy or you can go to Amazon.com to order an ebook copy of the book! And, I'm always happy to come speak to your group/organization/book club/etc, write an article or do an interview about my book so please reach out to my anytime at kimfenneman@gmail.com.
Thank you for all the wonderful memories in this 1st year of being an author! Bless you for your love, support and for following my journey! Now, let YOUR light shine!!!
Wednesday, August 27, 2014
10 Years...Already?!
It was 10 years ago today that I signed the papers on my 1st house! Yep, 10 years! Wow. It's doesn't feel like 10 years in this house already. It feels like maybe 6 or 7 years, but not 10. My how time flies!
Looking back on the jobs that I've had since then, the new neighbors that have come and gone and the changes in my family (marriages, divorces, nephews and nieces, etc). A lot can change in just a year, but a decade later where am I at now? How have I changed? How have I grown? What have I achieved? What have I failed at? What did I learn? What are my goals for the next 10 years? 5 years? 1 year ahead?
I normally don't look 10 years ahead because you never know what is going to happen, what bumps in the road will alter your path forever and what my interests will be 10 years from now. It's too far ahead for me to plan...or to even think about. I've been trying to live in the present...the here and now...so that I can appreciate the moments, to be grateful for them and to truly experience life as it comes. It's not easy, especially when I'm a planner by nature, so I'm always looking a week ahead, a month ahead and not living in the present. We really never know how much time we have on this earth, so I want to make sure I'm not missing anything. And, I want to make sure I'm truly living my life...not waiting for this or that and not letting my life pass me by for whatever reason (stressing me out at the moment or worrying me about my future plans, etc).
10 years, huh? Thanks for the shelter, the memories, protection from the storms, modern conveniences, water, heat, air conditioning, and comfort. It's been a wonderful 10 years! I hope wherever your home is or wherever you call "home" is filled with special memories made and to come! Blessings to you this week!
Looking back on the jobs that I've had since then, the new neighbors that have come and gone and the changes in my family (marriages, divorces, nephews and nieces, etc). A lot can change in just a year, but a decade later where am I at now? How have I changed? How have I grown? What have I achieved? What have I failed at? What did I learn? What are my goals for the next 10 years? 5 years? 1 year ahead?
I normally don't look 10 years ahead because you never know what is going to happen, what bumps in the road will alter your path forever and what my interests will be 10 years from now. It's too far ahead for me to plan...or to even think about. I've been trying to live in the present...the here and now...so that I can appreciate the moments, to be grateful for them and to truly experience life as it comes. It's not easy, especially when I'm a planner by nature, so I'm always looking a week ahead, a month ahead and not living in the present. We really never know how much time we have on this earth, so I want to make sure I'm not missing anything. And, I want to make sure I'm truly living my life...not waiting for this or that and not letting my life pass me by for whatever reason (stressing me out at the moment or worrying me about my future plans, etc).
10 years, huh? Thanks for the shelter, the memories, protection from the storms, modern conveniences, water, heat, air conditioning, and comfort. It's been a wonderful 10 years! I hope wherever your home is or wherever you call "home" is filled with special memories made and to come! Blessings to you this week!
Sunday, August 24, 2014
Back to School...
It's that time of the year again...back to school! All the kiddos planning out what they'll wear on their first day back to school, what classes and teachers they'll have, what extra-curricular activities they'll be involved in, what new friends they'll make...all the first day jitters, all the new school year memories to be made...ahhh, it's almost fall! My favorite time of the year!
Some schools have already started back, but most around here start back tomorrow...which means back to abiding by all the school zones that surround me! It's always an exciting time for kids and even parents, but those first couple weeks of early mornings can be a little rough. School lunches packed, homework mounting up, and non-stop taxi service ensues for another year.
So, whether you are a parent or a student...good luck in the new school year! I hope the new year is full of fabulous memories and great achievements!! Blessings to you as you start back to school!
Some schools have already started back, but most around here start back tomorrow...which means back to abiding by all the school zones that surround me! It's always an exciting time for kids and even parents, but those first couple weeks of early mornings can be a little rough. School lunches packed, homework mounting up, and non-stop taxi service ensues for another year.
So, whether you are a parent or a student...good luck in the new school year! I hope the new year is full of fabulous memories and great achievements!! Blessings to you as you start back to school!
Wednesday, August 20, 2014
Don't Forget...
Don't forget...if you haven't purchased a copy of my book, Corn-fed with Rice on the Side, you can order it at www.kimfenneman.com. If you're an e-reader, you can purchase the e-book on Amazon.com.
It's a great look at daily life as an adoptee and many adoptees will find several familiar stories they can relate to. It's a very helpful and insightful book for adoptive parents or parents who are looking into adoption. And, I've had several non-adoptees tell me they could even relate to many of my stories! So, it's a book for all! To see life from a different perspective, gain a greater understanding of what it's like to be adopted, and to share in the laughter of life stories!
I hope you enjoy my journey and look forward to hearing yours! Blessings to you the rest of the week!
It's a great look at daily life as an adoptee and many adoptees will find several familiar stories they can relate to. It's a very helpful and insightful book for adoptive parents or parents who are looking into adoption. And, I've had several non-adoptees tell me they could even relate to many of my stories! So, it's a book for all! To see life from a different perspective, gain a greater understanding of what it's like to be adopted, and to share in the laughter of life stories!
I hope you enjoy my journey and look forward to hearing yours! Blessings to you the rest of the week!
Sunday, August 17, 2014
Connecting....
Yesterday I connected with some local Korean adoptees to share our stories and meet other adoptees in the area. It was nice meeting them all and their families...and, of course hearing their stories and finding similarities in how we grew up or how we view certain things about being adopted. It's always very fascinating to hear about other people's journeys, how they grew up, how they view being adopted and hearing their families (mothers, fathers, spouses, children) perspectives. As I've said before, all adoptions are different and all adoptees are different, so as with any individual gracing this earth we all have our own stories....journey in life.
And, it's always nice to hear other people having the same views or outlooks as you. We're all connected by the simple fact that we were adopted, but that picture looks different for each one of us. So, it's nice to find that commonality and understanding with others that have experienced it.
I definitely wish we had more time or more opportunities to share with one another (as adoptees) and part of my involvement in coordinating these get-togethers (like the picnic in June and this get-together) is to encourage adoptees to get out and share their stories with others. To know that you're not alone or that they truly are a lot more of us (particularly in this area) than we think or know.
So, if you're not near a big city where there are opportunities to connect with other adoptees, I would encourage you to create that opportunity. It could be a coffee break, lunch, happy hour or whatever works where you live. Get up, get out and get connected!
Blessings to you this week!!
And, it's always nice to hear other people having the same views or outlooks as you. We're all connected by the simple fact that we were adopted, but that picture looks different for each one of us. So, it's nice to find that commonality and understanding with others that have experienced it.
I definitely wish we had more time or more opportunities to share with one another (as adoptees) and part of my involvement in coordinating these get-togethers (like the picnic in June and this get-together) is to encourage adoptees to get out and share their stories with others. To know that you're not alone or that they truly are a lot more of us (particularly in this area) than we think or know.
So, if you're not near a big city where there are opportunities to connect with other adoptees, I would encourage you to create that opportunity. It could be a coffee break, lunch, happy hour or whatever works where you live. Get up, get out and get connected!
Blessings to you this week!!
Wednesday, August 13, 2014
O Captain, My Captain!
How stunned and shocked many of us across the world were this week when we heard the news of Robin Williams passing. What a sad and tragic loss of such a kind, generous and loving soul that had such tremendous talent that was organic, brilliant and such a joy to all those he shared his genius gifts with throughout the years.
Just watching the highlights of his numerous films, TV roles, stand-up routines and countless USO trips you saw a life filled with so much beauty and laughter. It's just heartbreaking to know that he was suffering so much internally because he made the world a much happier place for so many. Meryl Streep said it so well on the Today show yesterday, "It's hard to believe such an unstoppable energy is now stopped." It's so true...he was such a force of nature. I remember watching him on Mork and Mindy growing up. I loved that show! And, we all have our favorite movies that he was in...mine were Dead Poets Society (poetry on screen), Good Will Hunting (such a deep and heartfelt performance), Good Morning Vietnam (can you imagine him as your every day DJ on the radio every morning?!), Aladdin, Hook, and What Dreams May Come (about what it's like in heaven). Such an amazing body of work! We have all been blessed to see and receive his talented gifts which is why I think many of us feel so saddened by his passing.
Steven Spielberg's tweet I thought summed it up the best and was so poignant..."Robin was a lightening storm of comic genius and our laughter was the thunder that sustained him." Thank you for sharing your many gifts, generosity and loving soul with us, Mr. Williams. May you be at peace and make God laugh!
Just watching the highlights of his numerous films, TV roles, stand-up routines and countless USO trips you saw a life filled with so much beauty and laughter. It's just heartbreaking to know that he was suffering so much internally because he made the world a much happier place for so many. Meryl Streep said it so well on the Today show yesterday, "It's hard to believe such an unstoppable energy is now stopped." It's so true...he was such a force of nature. I remember watching him on Mork and Mindy growing up. I loved that show! And, we all have our favorite movies that he was in...mine were Dead Poets Society (poetry on screen), Good Will Hunting (such a deep and heartfelt performance), Good Morning Vietnam (can you imagine him as your every day DJ on the radio every morning?!), Aladdin, Hook, and What Dreams May Come (about what it's like in heaven). Such an amazing body of work! We have all been blessed to see and receive his talented gifts which is why I think many of us feel so saddened by his passing.
Steven Spielberg's tweet I thought summed it up the best and was so poignant..."Robin was a lightening storm of comic genius and our laughter was the thunder that sustained him." Thank you for sharing your many gifts, generosity and loving soul with us, Mr. Williams. May you be at peace and make God laugh!
Sunday, August 10, 2014
K-Pop!
Have you heard about K-Pop? Me either...until I read this article earlier this morning. Is S.Korea the coolest place on earth? http://www.cnn.com/2014/08/08/opinion/yang-korea-cool/index.html?hpt=hp_t3
It's an interesting look into pop culture, but one that S.Koreans have worked really hard to develop...and now it seems to be paying off. That's the thing about Koreans...they work really, really hard to be #1. It's a cultural thing and you can bring shame to your family if you don't work hard or succeed in whatever you are doing (school, work, sports, etc.). It's a high pressure way to grow up with a ton of expectations placed upon you, but it's how they are raised and what they know. I still think Koreans tend to be reserved and conservative, as well, but they do have a competitive spirit to be the best.
Have you been intrigued or sucked into the K-Pop popularity recently? What do you like most about it? What do you not like about it? I think there was a lot of awareness about Korean pop culture when Psy broke into the public mainstream with "Gangnam Style". But, other than that song and video I really haven't seen a lot of it where I am. However,now I'll be keeping my eye out and seeing if the local teenagers are aware of it. It could be a regional thing, too.
Whatever pop culture is catching your eye these days, I hope it's a nice (and safe) distraction to your week. Have a blessed week ahead!
It's an interesting look into pop culture, but one that S.Koreans have worked really hard to develop...and now it seems to be paying off. That's the thing about Koreans...they work really, really hard to be #1. It's a cultural thing and you can bring shame to your family if you don't work hard or succeed in whatever you are doing (school, work, sports, etc.). It's a high pressure way to grow up with a ton of expectations placed upon you, but it's how they are raised and what they know. I still think Koreans tend to be reserved and conservative, as well, but they do have a competitive spirit to be the best.
Have you been intrigued or sucked into the K-Pop popularity recently? What do you like most about it? What do you not like about it? I think there was a lot of awareness about Korean pop culture when Psy broke into the public mainstream with "Gangnam Style". But, other than that song and video I really haven't seen a lot of it where I am. However,now I'll be keeping my eye out and seeing if the local teenagers are aware of it. It could be a regional thing, too.
Whatever pop culture is catching your eye these days, I hope it's a nice (and safe) distraction to your week. Have a blessed week ahead!
Wednesday, August 6, 2014
Heating Up
It's almost mid-August and it's definitely starting to heat up here in Texas! Normally by now we'd have several 100 degree days, but it's been a really mild summer compared to most summers. No complaining here! We've had two cold fronts that have actually led to cooler weather over the summer...so nice! But, you can't keep the 'dog days of summer' away forever. Looking at the forecast, the 100 degree weather is definitely upon us for awhile.
I can't believe it's August already and 'back-to-school' is right around the corner, literally! Where has the year gone? We only have 4 months left of this year! It definitely seems to be flying by fast! I just saw a girl from my gym at the grocery store with her 2 year old son and I couldn't believe he was 2 already! It seems like just yesterday I talked to her after she had him and now it's 2 years later?!?! How did that happen? He was a cutie though...half Korean half Japanese.
So, as the temps heat up I hope everyone finds ways to stay cool, enjoy their last vacations before school starts and survives the school shopping madness! Enjoy the last few days of summer and may you have a blessed week ahead!
I can't believe it's August already and 'back-to-school' is right around the corner, literally! Where has the year gone? We only have 4 months left of this year! It definitely seems to be flying by fast! I just saw a girl from my gym at the grocery store with her 2 year old son and I couldn't believe he was 2 already! It seems like just yesterday I talked to her after she had him and now it's 2 years later?!?! How did that happen? He was a cutie though...half Korean half Japanese.
So, as the temps heat up I hope everyone finds ways to stay cool, enjoy their last vacations before school starts and survives the school shopping madness! Enjoy the last few days of summer and may you have a blessed week ahead!
Sunday, August 3, 2014
Break Over
It may have been unintentional or just the busyness of everyday life, but I haven't spent much time generating book sales in the past couple months. It's definitely been on my mind, but the days come and go and it's still on my to-do list. So, starting this week it's time to get back in the game!
There are a lot of organizations I need to contact and some I need to follow back up with, so it's moving back up to the top of my to-do list. It'll be back to 10+ hour days...day job and then night (book) job. It's what I did when the book was first published. I spent long days trying to drum up interest and publicity for my 1st book! Now, it's getting close to that 1 year anniversary mark when my book was first published....the end of this month. Holy cow....already a year has passed?! Where has the time gone?
So, if you've been following my blog or are just new to my postings, let me know if your church, school, book club or any adoption agencies or support organizations would like me to come speak, write an article, do an interview or be part of your book fair. I'd be happy to do it! Big or small I'm open to it all!!
Email me at kimfenneman@gmail.com for any requests, suggestions or ideas! Thank you! And, may you have a blessed week ahead!
There are a lot of organizations I need to contact and some I need to follow back up with, so it's moving back up to the top of my to-do list. It'll be back to 10+ hour days...day job and then night (book) job. It's what I did when the book was first published. I spent long days trying to drum up interest and publicity for my 1st book! Now, it's getting close to that 1 year anniversary mark when my book was first published....the end of this month. Holy cow....already a year has passed?! Where has the time gone?
So, if you've been following my blog or are just new to my postings, let me know if your church, school, book club or any adoption agencies or support organizations would like me to come speak, write an article, do an interview or be part of your book fair. I'd be happy to do it! Big or small I'm open to it all!!
Email me at kimfenneman@gmail.com for any requests, suggestions or ideas! Thank you! And, may you have a blessed week ahead!
Wednesday, July 30, 2014
I Didn't See That One Coming....
If you've read my book you'll have a greater understanding of this (and if you haven't you can always order it from www.kimfenneman.com!), but I always get asked when I'm at the nail salon "where are you from?" Always. Never fails. If you read my post a couple days a go, the last time I went to get a pedicure it took two girls 5 guesses before they got it right...usually it only takes three: Chinese, Japanese, Korean.
Yesterday, my mom went to get her nails done (without me, so no visual influence on what they asked her next) and the girl doing her pedicure asked her if she was part Asian! WHAT?!?! Are you serious?! Really?!?! Nooooo, come on! Apparently there's a first for everything, but this is definitely a first for my mom...especially without me there sitting next to her! If anyone knows or has seen my mom she definitely has no Asian features. She's part German, maybe a little Irish and a little Indian. Again, what?????? All I can say is "wow, I didn't see that one coming!"
Mom's reasoning was maybe since she's getting older the wrinkles around her eyes are making them narrower. Haha! I guess to some extent I thought I'd 'heard them all'...meaning silly/ignorant/uneducated questions about being adopted...but this one was directed at mom without me even being there! Ironic? Coincidence? Crazy. Ok, crazy sounds about right.
Oh, just wait for my next nail salon visit....what crazy questions will I and/or my mom get next? Stay tuned.....
Blessings to you on these 'crazy' last few days of July! Stay safe in all this crazy summer weather!!
Yesterday, my mom went to get her nails done (without me, so no visual influence on what they asked her next) and the girl doing her pedicure asked her if she was part Asian! WHAT?!?! Are you serious?! Really?!?! Nooooo, come on! Apparently there's a first for everything, but this is definitely a first for my mom...especially without me there sitting next to her! If anyone knows or has seen my mom she definitely has no Asian features. She's part German, maybe a little Irish and a little Indian. Again, what?????? All I can say is "wow, I didn't see that one coming!"
Mom's reasoning was maybe since she's getting older the wrinkles around her eyes are making them narrower. Haha! I guess to some extent I thought I'd 'heard them all'...meaning silly/ignorant/uneducated questions about being adopted...but this one was directed at mom without me even being there! Ironic? Coincidence? Crazy. Ok, crazy sounds about right.
Oh, just wait for my next nail salon visit....what crazy questions will I and/or my mom get next? Stay tuned.....
Blessings to you on these 'crazy' last few days of July! Stay safe in all this crazy summer weather!!
Sunday, July 27, 2014
Letting My Light Shine!
This past week I spoke to a group of adoption professionals during one of their monthly meetings. All of the ladies there were either part of an adoption organization or worked independently through support organizations. I had reached out to one of the member's organization and she invited me to come speak at one of their meetings.
This was really the first presentation I had done to a group of people...and for it to be a group of adoption professionals was a little intimidating (in my head leading up to the presentation at least). But, it all went really well! I told them about my adoption experience and about growing up, and finally about writing the book. They were very receptive to my story, had good questions and provided great feedback! Each one of them really enjoyed and appreciated my story and thought I had a really positive message to share with others. It was exactly the feedback I was hoping for...and needed! They bought several books and each one was going to share my story/information to their colleagues and clients. What more could I ask for?!
I left there feeling full of gratitude! Full of gratitude for how receptive they were to my story and how intrigued they were to hear such an uplifting and positive story. Normally when they are talking to prospective adoptive parents they are relaying all the contingencies and things they need to be aware of and prepared for throughout their adoption journey. They are guiding parents through the process and trying to prepare them for any scenario...because as I've said before each adoption is different, each adoptee is different and each environment/situation is different. No adoption is the same. So, I was glad to provide such a shift in perspective so that they and others could see a hopeful and happy example of what it could be like.
Walking into that presentation I had told myself to just 'shine my light brightly' and that's exactly what I did! And, they received it warmly! Hopefully my light will reach far and wide and make a difference in some one's life....big or small. My small contribution...sharing my story...providing hope, understanding and insight into adoption. Shining MY light with others and hopefully showing others it's OK to shine their light, too!!
Blessings to you in this last week of July! Where has the summer gone?
This was really the first presentation I had done to a group of people...and for it to be a group of adoption professionals was a little intimidating (in my head leading up to the presentation at least). But, it all went really well! I told them about my adoption experience and about growing up, and finally about writing the book. They were very receptive to my story, had good questions and provided great feedback! Each one of them really enjoyed and appreciated my story and thought I had a really positive message to share with others. It was exactly the feedback I was hoping for...and needed! They bought several books and each one was going to share my story/information to their colleagues and clients. What more could I ask for?!
I left there feeling full of gratitude! Full of gratitude for how receptive they were to my story and how intrigued they were to hear such an uplifting and positive story. Normally when they are talking to prospective adoptive parents they are relaying all the contingencies and things they need to be aware of and prepared for throughout their adoption journey. They are guiding parents through the process and trying to prepare them for any scenario...because as I've said before each adoption is different, each adoptee is different and each environment/situation is different. No adoption is the same. So, I was glad to provide such a shift in perspective so that they and others could see a hopeful and happy example of what it could be like.
Walking into that presentation I had told myself to just 'shine my light brightly' and that's exactly what I did! And, they received it warmly! Hopefully my light will reach far and wide and make a difference in some one's life....big or small. My small contribution...sharing my story...providing hope, understanding and insight into adoption. Shining MY light with others and hopefully showing others it's OK to shine their light, too!!
Blessings to you in this last week of July! Where has the summer gone?
Thursday, July 24, 2014
Guessing Game
I was recently at the nail salon getting a pedicure before my latest California trip and as usual halfway into the session, my (Asian) nail technician asked if I was Vietnamese. I told her "no". The (Asian) nail technician working on the lady's feet next to us chimed in and said "Chinese". I said "no". The two went back and forth guessing...."Japanese, Filipino, Taiwanese". "Nope" as I kept shaking my head no to each new guess. Wow, this is the longest it's ever taken them to guess (at the nail salon). It's usually takes them 3 guesses to get it right. I write about this in my book, so for those of you who have read it will know my previous history at the nail salons. For those who haven't read my book yet, get yours today at www.kimfenneman.com!
When they finally guessed Korean, my nail technician said "say something in Korean", but she wasn't totally looking at me, so I didn't say anything....mainly because I don't know that many words and also because I'm sure I don't pronounce the ones I do know correctly! She was kind of looking at the nail technician next to her, so I just let them giggle it out a bit. Oh geez. Then my technician asked how long I had lived in the U.S. I told her over 30 years. She looked up at me surprised as she couldn't believe I was over 30 years old. Aww, thank you...all is forgiven now. Ha!
At least I have the "you look younger than you really are" going for me! But, another guessing game at the salon in the books. It's always something I know is coming....just another part of the regular routine. Is it part of yours?
Have a blessed week as the end of July is upon us. Stay cool out there and enjoy your summer vacations!
When they finally guessed Korean, my nail technician said "say something in Korean", but she wasn't totally looking at me, so I didn't say anything....mainly because I don't know that many words and also because I'm sure I don't pronounce the ones I do know correctly! She was kind of looking at the nail technician next to her, so I just let them giggle it out a bit. Oh geez. Then my technician asked how long I had lived in the U.S. I told her over 30 years. She looked up at me surprised as she couldn't believe I was over 30 years old. Aww, thank you...all is forgiven now. Ha!
At least I have the "you look younger than you really are" going for me! But, another guessing game at the salon in the books. It's always something I know is coming....just another part of the regular routine. Is it part of yours?
Have a blessed week as the end of July is upon us. Stay cool out there and enjoy your summer vacations!
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